178: Coaching with Care: Bringing Clarity to Care Ministry in Transition
In this episode of The Care Ministry Podcast, Laura Howe sits down with Hilary Spears, Director of Care at The Journey West County in St. Louis. Hilary shares the unique journey of her church—transitioning from a multi-site model to an independent congregation—and how that shift has impacted care ministry. With deep roots in counseling and a growing lay care team, Hilary brings wisdom and vulnerability as she navigates big-picture strategy while handling real-time needs. They discuss everything from normalizing mental health in church, developing sustainable care systems, building a thriving Deacon team, and the delicate balance of working in ministry while also working on it. If you’re building or refining your church’s care ministry, this episode is full of relatable challenges, practical tips, and thoughtful encouragement.
Quotes
- Hilary Spears:
“It kind of feels like we’re building the airplane while it’s in the air.” - Laura Howe:
“Care ministry grows at the speed of relationship.” - Hilary Spears:
“We’ve done a great job of normalizing counseling. The stigma around mental health really doesn’t exist in our church anymore.” - Hilary Spears:
“I can’t have everything perfectly set and then provide care—I have to do both at the same time.” - Laura Howe:
“Not every church needs to do it all. Care ministry should reflect the unique people, vision, and resources of your church.”
Resources
Connect with Hope Made Strong
Website: HopeMadeStrong.org
